I hate mars in cancer.?

I have mars in cancer too...mars is supposed to be about your pions what drives you...i havent found myself to be soft due to my mars in cancer, i dont have a lot of pions or things that drive me in life (as it seems cancers are very lazy! lol idk, just what ive been told). I am pionate about children, family, and love, basic cancer concerns, but also basic concerns for almost the whole world...I would worry about this placement that much, esp. since your a bull headed taurus, with mercury in aries, so I know your quite humorous but stubborn. Not soft traits at all!